If you're interested in both watching male porn and dating women, you're bisexual but if only one or the other, then if only interested in women than straight but if only gay porn than gay.
Am I gay if I watch gay porn? No, watching gay porn does not make you gay. Masturbatory habits are often based around whatever sexual fantasies get you going. But that doesn’t mean you’d want to live out these fantasies.
Over the years I’ve developed a simple set of questions for men who come into my office fearing that they are secretly gay or bisexual, or that their female partner or therapist has insisted.
In a society where most of us are expected to be straight, it can be difficult to take a step back and ask whether you’re gay, straight, or something else.